Ally Work in the Wake of the Chauvin Verdict
What are our choices, following the jury’s decision to find Derek Chauvin guilty on all charges? It was an exceptional moment of justice, and a bittersweet victory for the family of George Floyd and for the families and all those who mourn for others denied such accountability: Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, Daunte Wright, Eric Garner, and many more Black lives taken by police officers.
If you are white like me, and you are committed to being an ally to people who identify as Black, I’d like to suggest some specific ways to come alongside people in the days to come.
Remember that justice is not yet established for the uncounted African Americans in America. One police officer going to prison gives us a direction, but we have a long way to go to ensure that police officers use force ethically and are held accountable for rebuilding a law enforcement culture that does not tolerate racism.
Individualize the way you relate to African Americans, whom you seek to support. Some may welcome the chance to engage in thoughtful conversation about the issues and emotions they have experienced in the wake of Mr. Floyd’s death, and some might be reacting to the ongoing injustice happening in their homes and community. Not everyone is ready to have this conversation, but when they are, listen with an open mind and heart.
Resist any temptation to place yourself in the discussion. As allies, we don’t make the conversation about us: it’s not about our views, our experience, or even our shared anger. An ally utterly commits to presence—listen as carefully as you can. The simple truth is that, during a serious time like this, an ally looks to determine who the other person is, and makes space for them to feel what they feel and say what they want to say. This is a time to find ways to communicate the message: I’m with you.
When you want to lead inclusively, you build skills to address the inescapable reality of suffering, both your own and the pain of those you care about. As white allies, we have entered a season in which African Americans and their children will hold us accountable. Allies serve as a witness in order to honor another’s suffering. We find courage, we persevere in relationships, and we remain in service.
How will you act as an ally in support of Black people and their communities?